making some decisions

tuesday was a holiday here in thailand, so we took i took it as a free day and slept in, went to the mall to buy books, sat around at a cafe reading, ate sushi and ice cream and drank a bottle and a half of wine when we got home. during/between all that we finally had a real conversation about our wedding. yay! lots of stuff is still up in the air, but we made some concrete decisions:

• live band
• full open bar
• possible asian theme wedding
• in boston

still lots of open issues. for example, where we're doing this thing. neither of us is really keen on a hotel wedding, but is it possible to find a venue in downtown boston that's big enough but isn't a hotel?